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Save The Marriage - Do The Children A Favor

Author : MakingUp Lyod

It's not easy to be separated or divorced. Although it is only one word, it affects a person at the personal level and also affects the entire family. The person undergoing this process may face a lot of pain and stress and lose the personal as well as social stability.

The level of stress is even more for those who have children. Those children will be experiencing the pain and tension of seeing their family split. They may get mentally disturbed and their future may be ruined. Therefore, it is often advised to save the marriage for the children.

Usually, the world of children is limited to their parents and they are totally dependent on their parents for all their needs. What they needed most are the love and protection of their parents. That is why when their parents split, it is as if their whole world collapsed.

Imagine your parents divorced and you have to choose which of your parents to live with. Can you feel how hard it is to make a decision? If a child is underage, the court will decide the fate of the child. You can see how important it is to save the marriage for the children.

Divorce can also affect your financial situation. Sometimes this can make it difficult to support your children. Since, divorce or marriage separation is not socially accepted in some countries, the child may feel embarrass. This event can also weaken the bondage between the child/children and the parents. A child of divorced parents might experience a feeling of intense anger, insecurity and loneliness.

The consequences of divorce affect almost every aspect of the children's lives such as emotions and behavior coping skills, psychological development and the parent-child relationship. The children may feel helpless and lonely due to frustration which may lead to some health problems such as sleep difficulties.

There may be some destructive changes in children's behavior such as alcohol abuse, drug addiction, violence or the attempts to suicide. They may also display other "behavioral" issues like being nervous,playing truant and even bedwetting. You should consider all these points before making any rash decision to end your marriage. Indeed, you have to expend all ways to save the marriage first.

Once you decide that you should save the marriage for the children, you should start working on it. You can first find out the problems in your married life and ways to resolve them. When you know the problems, both of you should equally take efforts to solve them and save the marriage.

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In order to save the marriage, you need good communication to express your feelings and to listen to and understand your partner. If you are having problems communicating with your spouse, you can get advice from your family or friends. If this is not sufficient, you can go for marriage counseling which may help you to understand your problems and differences and suggest some solutions. You can also get lots of help from courses, read the Save My Marriage Today Review for details.

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