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How To Get Over The Love Of Your Life

Author : Rhonda Jones


Oprah Winfrey once said "You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on." Once a relationship is over and done, your only hope is to pull yourself together and move on. Of course, this may not happen over night, even the strongest people need time to heal. A person's will power will always be a factor in whether he or she will ever pick up the pieces and see the light of life again.Always keep in mind that you are not the only one in the world who bears the burden of moving on after a failed relationship. There are almost 4 divorces recorded for every 1000 marriages in the United States each day. The following suggestions may help you recover from a bad break up so you can begin looking for love again.

Leave the past behind - Putting away gifts from him or her, avoiding those places you used to visit as a couple and staying away from things that remind you of your ex is not a good way to start. You are only running away from the hurt when what you need to do is face the pain and anger. Try to acknowledge the feelings you are having, this will help you leave the past behind. You should not drive for an hour looking for another grocery store because the Target near your place is where you used to buy groceries together. Doing normal things in places you visited with your ex in the past and trying to enjoy these moments can be healthy. Before you know it, you will have let go of all the painful memories associated with the places and objects that reminded you of your broken relationship.

Learn lessons from past mistakes - Everyone makes mistakes but only a fool does not learn from their mistakes. Do not let yourself be included in the roster of fools who hastily enter into a rebound relationship right after a bad breakup. All you will succeed in doing is punishing yourself all over again. Try to talk to people you can really trust. They may be able to give you an honest and sincere assessment of the mistakes you made in the relationship. You can also put your feelings into writing. Try to answer certain questions about possible mistakes you may have made. When things started to fall out-of-place, what could you have done differently? Or, how can you begin a healthy relationship with clear ground rules set firmly from the start? As you respond to these questions, lessons will begin to unravel before you.

There are other ways to cope with the loss of a partner. Seek an experts advice on how to move on from a failed relationship, an expert can help you analyze the specific things that may have caused the relationship to fail in the first place.


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