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5 Telltale Signs You Could Have A Stalker

Author : Linda Cole

Copyright (c) 2010 Linda Cole

How do you know if you are being stalked? What are the obvious signs?

You may have a strange feeling that someone is watching you and are putting it down to paranoia. We all have a sixth sense and sometimes it springs into action to protect us from harm. Your intuition may just be right.

Here are some signs you could have a stalker.

1. You keep seeing the same car parked outside your home or work. Of course if it is an ex boyfriend or girlfriend stalking you it will be easy to identify them. Because it could be a total stranger take notice of the license plate plate, make and color of car. Some stalkers can idolize you from afar. It could be someone from your work or area where you live.

2. If you are constantly being sent cards and gifts and they are not from a friend or family member you will have reason to worry. Keep them, in case they are needed as evidence of a stalking.

3. When you are at work do you get a lot of calls where someone hangs up just as you answer? You may get a lot of text messages that are sexual by nature but the callers number has been blocked so you can not see who has been sending them.

4. If it is an ex boyfriend or girlfriend stalking you they will probably be more out in the open about it. It still will not stop them from trying to coerce you into being with them and making a nuisance of themselves. Knowing who they are and where they live does make it easier to put a halt to them stalking you as you can hopefully get support from your ex's family to get them to stop.

5. If you are an Internet user and participate in the chat rooms you should know it is a playground for stalkers searching for new victims. If you have been chatting with someone and they start to get personal and want to see you offline. Stop any communication with them and stay out of the chat rooms for a while. Stalkers love the fact that they can enact out their fantasies without anyone seeing or knowing who they are. This is dangerous territory as there have been too many tragic cases of people who met with these people offline and got physically hurt. Always be on your guard.

These are the some of the indicators that you may have a stalker with a fixation on you. As these people are obsessive they often convince themselves that the two of you are soul mates and it is their divine right to make you believe it also. They pull no punches when it comes to getting their point across and will keep a 24-hour vigil if necessary to get your attention. They seem devoid of a conscience because if they really did have it they would understand how much emotional distress they inflict on their victims.

It is not uncommon for a victim of a stalker to feel sorry for them, as their life is obviously out of control. You must not weaken and express this, as they will only see it as an open door for them to walk through. You cannot fix them that is the job of an expert professional. What you have to do is look after yourself and be aware that a stalker can be relentless and at times violent. Go on with your life no matter what they throw at you and make sure you have as much support from family, friends and the law as you can. You will find the strength to stand against them, as it is your divine right to a life without fear or trepidation.

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Do you have a STALKER in your life and want to get rid of them permanently? linda E Cole has written STALKER SURVIVAL GUIDE to show you how. .

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Tags:   stalker survival guide, stalkers, stalked, stalking, stalker laws, stalker help, domestic abuse

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